How to Give Your Boyfriend an Unforgettable Lap Dance - Olowu Blog
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Unforgettable Lap Dance - Olowu Blog |
Before you give a lap dance not the Following
- Stretch! “It’s important to stretch before you perform to prepare yourself for any extraneous movements,” says Cheng.
- Plan your playlist ahead of time. Just like you check your PowerPoint before giving a big presentation, make sure you have your music cued up and ready to go.
- Don’t do anything your body can’t handle—like, say, a backbend if you can’t even do a somersault.
- Set the mood with dimmed lights and candles, but don't make it too dark to which your partner can't see you.
How to give a lap dance
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Unforgettable Lap Dance - Olowu Blog |
- Instruct your partner to get comfy whether in a bed, on the couch, on a chair, or wherever you’re thinking and most comfortable.
- Start from afar and walk toward your partner to the beat of the music suggests Cheng. “Show off a couple of dance moves before arriving at your partner, build the anticipation, and then start the main attraction.”
- Get as close to your partner as possible and move your body with the music. Start slow and increase your speed as the music changes.
- Gyrate your body and make eye-contact—it’s the sexiest thing about a lap dance that engages your partner.
- Switch between standing above your partner, sitting, and squatting. You can start by sitting on your partner’s lap, dancing over your partner, then squatting and bending over in front of them.
- For the more adventurous and flexible dancers, show off that flexibility by stretching your leg as high as it will go. Going for a backbend while sitting on your partner’s lap is definitely a crowd-pleaser too says Cheng.
Here are some specific moves to try
- The Lotion: For this one, start a little further back right between his knees, so he can see everything you're doing. Take your hands and slowly start to rub your boobs, like you're putting on body lotion. Touch yourself like you would want him to touch you — trail your hands down to your lower abs just above your hot spot, work your way back up to your chest, or turn around and massage your butt. The key is to go in slow motion, so he can imagine having his hands all over you.
- The Hip-notizer: Your hottest seduction tool is your hips, and this move is super easy to master. Slowly start swaying your hips from side to side, and then move them in a figure eight. Up the ante by touching yourself as you do it — this is a prime time to show off your "lotion" skills.
- The Cowgirl: Turn around and hover your butt just above his crotch (you can put your hands on his thighs or the arms of the chair for balance). Move your butt in circles, like you're painting his package with your cheeks. Then switch to an up and down motion, like you're riding him in reverse cowgirl. To really make him pitch a tent, look back at him as you grind against his body.
Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!